BA and mini-tummy tuck together

I am a 39 year old considering BA/lift and mini tummy tuck done together to save down time with recovery. My thoughts are that if I am already relying on my DH to take care of the kids already why not have both procedures done? Has anyone had this done before and how bad was the recovery? Also, I am in a wedding 4 weeks after the procedure is tenatively scheduled - is that enough time to be ready to be in a dress with out too much pain? Don't really need everyone asking why I am sitting down so much.
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